“Sharing is Caring” coffee morning

I am in my late 60’s. I have been using Tassibee services for the past 10 years. I came to know about the Tassibee Project through my GP. Before coming to Tassibee, I was going through a difficult time, emotionally and socially. I was fearful, anxious, distressed and isolated. This was farther amplified by the fact that I speak no English, neither can I write nor read. Therefore, I did not have friends. In addition, I was experiencing many challenges at home.

I care for my son, who is in coma, and my daughter in law, who has severe mental health issues. My husband is a taxi driver, so he is hardly at home. Just before coming to Tassibee, I lost a young family member, I was hurting! I was in grief! – I didn’t have anybody to talk to and share my story, my grief and my experience. My translator at the GP referred me to Tassibee, and told me that I would be helped, as there were other women from my culture, who spoke my language, that would listen to me.

I met Khalida, the Tassibee CEO, and upon hearing my story, she was empathetic, and introduced me to other women who come to Tassibee. I was introduced to the Friday prayer sessions, and after the prayer, women sit and dine together over lunch, sharing stories and experiences. I have been frequent in this session, and this has made me gain confidence, as well as spiritual nourishment.

I also used to struggle accessing services, as I had to wait for a translator. I was not aware of the available services, and since coming to Tassibee, I have been signposted to various disabled services. Tassibee volunteers read my letters, and assists me in scheduling my appointments.

I feel confident, empowered, and I am no longer isolated. Being in a group makes me have a sense of belonging, identity and security.